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I decided to keep our appointment.
All my friends are married with. Bayard was patient and listened to me vent. I told her I almost canceled our session out of pure shame.
Most people, I thought, make friends without a strategy or game plan. Those with social anxiety struggle because they are in their head and second guess themselves.
I felt ready to hear what Bayard had in store for me and was happy to know that there were only three challenges she wanted me to tackle over the next month to help me make friends. The problem arises when coupled people assume that all single people are miserable, rather than determining which of their friends actually need their support. Just as I feel genuibe in quarantine, people in complicated, unhappy, or abusive relationships might feel trapped together. ouut
Like me, they probably crave the support of their friends, single or not. Where does the laptop go?
Read: Why people are confessing their crushes right now I worry that anymofe gulf between singles and couples will persist when quarantine ends. I worry a lot.
I can set aside these worries, though, and remember that the hardships that singles and couples share—watching death tolls tick up, seeing the people we love falling sick, or worse—probably out the hardships that divide us. Some things will return to the way they were in the Before Times—my friends in relationships will still try to set me anyjore, not out of pity, but to be helpful. Some things will change—I will offer to fix their bikes, although no one will accept, which is probably for the best.
Most of my friends who reach gennuine to me—single or not—do so with a kindness that acknowledges our collective trials. If the worst thing I can say about someone is that they show too much concern, is that really so bad?