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A guy's inability to let go of his ex may come down to cone thing: shock. Getty Images Sept. He said he wanted something serious, and after a few intense dates, he said he wanted that with me. My feelings? Same — times infinity. But after a few months, it became evident that Brad, however eager to settle down, would never be able to commit to me.

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A guy's inability to let go of his ex may come down to one thing: shock. Getty Images Sept. He said he wanted something serious, and after a few intense dates, he said he wanted that with me. My feelings?

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Same — times infinity. But after a few months, it became evident that Brad, however eager to settle down, would never be able to commit to me.

One of the reasons? I was baffled.

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Had there been some tragedy? Had she been killed in a fire?

Then there was Franz, my love from Germany, who as soon as his internship in the U. S was finished, reunited with his ex back in Heidelberg. While I could relate to the pain of being dumped and even the demobilizing depression that had followed in a couple of casesthis male behavior confused me.

I talked to countless people of various genders and sexual orientations about what I was observing. It turns out there's some science to back up my hard-earned and real life conclusions.

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A recent study found that while break-ups take a more immediate emotional afterr on women, men often "never fully recover — they simply move on. I was surprised to find that everyone I talked to not only concurred that men and women handle breakups differently, but that quite often in heterosexual relationships, at least the man has a more difficult time coping.

Men are more prone to being shocked. The greater the shock of the loss, the longer it takes to recover. When she ends the relationship, this rejection could hit his confidence and self-esteem hard. Gary Browna d marriage and family therapist in Los Angeles.

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They bury them rather than work them out. This same thinking — that men should buck up — can also dissuade men from seeking counseling or therapy or even, simply, deep conversations with d men. In earlier generations the joke and it was so true was that men would not stop and ask for directions when lost. They would drive for hours, lost, but refuse to ask for help and instead try to find where they needed to go on their own.

It was a guy thing. GPS has changed that, but you get the point: Guys don't like to be vulnerable or appear weak. Society has a ways to go in all things gender equality, and that includes emotional honesty and exploration for men.

Once, I literally held a man while he wept over an ex, all the while silently begging the universe to make him some day love me the way he loved her. I chose his needs over my own and it backfired for both of us.

And not to his high school sweetheart, but to someone he probably met after we dated but not long after. I had to call a friend and talk it out.

After our chat I felt fine, resolved and, once again, over it. Quite possibly, trapped in the past, just like Brad had been. Nicole Spector.